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The heat has reached the point where i can wear bermudas and a T-shirt and flats
and walk all the way to the library to type this.
Alright!!!!
Well...today I have to rant about something...
i think something which i've ranted about some time ago....
but like most thingst that plague me...it's a recurrent prob....
just like a festering bed sore....
righto....
so we all know by now tat D, my good fren and flat mate has been dating T right?!!
are we all on board with this right now?
well...and we all know that he is 7 years younger than she is right?
Well, the age ain't really all that matters coz somehow their in the same decade.
So the thing is, the last 6mths, these 2 have been waxing and waning in terms of their relationship
he doesn't keep up with his promises to her, never on time (we all noe that, we once placed bets with poker plaque on how late he would be one board games night ), and basically he places his mates above her.
she hates it when he does the above, hates his frens ( and they hate him too ), hates the fact that she's always the one having to explain stuff to him...blh blah blah...
And then....who gets to hear about all this?
ME ME ME!!!!!
Basically it's the same story over and over again...
I've hear it all....
" I want to break up with him, but I love him."
WHOLE FAT LOAD OF BOLLOCKS!!!
Alright....so I can't exactly say that to her, cause i don't want our relationship to be
under stress for some loser of a guy...
but here's wat I exactly want to say...
Look here, this is the way I see it.....
A) you're much older than he is... it's WEIRD! okie...so they say that age is no barrier...
BUT IT's STRANGE.....he lacks the emotional and intellectual maturity. He's dropped out of UNi. u work longer hours then he does....WHERE the fuck is this headed?
He's never going to be able to support u or a family!
B) He says he doesn't want to get married. Period. You want to get married and have kids.
DO I even need to explain this conflict of interest? WHY WASTE TIME?!!!
C) You love him... seriously for u guys out there who know me...i don't believe in this love nonsense. I think pple can fall in like but love? Nah...too many other factors polluting the whole idea. Is it just lust, vanity that u managed to score a young, above average looking guy, or just that you're insecure and u don't know if this is going to be the last time you'll ever find someone that u ''love''? Or...to put it in most degradative sense of the whole thing.....
Is it just MATERNAL / SISTERLY love? ( Age gap u see...)
D) Most pressing problem: The guy is a nice guy ( i can vouch that) but he clearly doesn't ''love'' you as much as u him. He puts his mates before you. Time and time again. And you're not used to it coz in previous relationships u have always been the sole proprietor of ur BF attention. He doesn't stand up to his frens when they call u a bitch.
Wat a fucking loser is that? And you're another one, have u looked in the mirror recently?
you're older than he is...with his looks he can probably score a younger girl... and he's too youn to think about being tied down to anyone. At this age, your mates are more important than your girlfriend.
E) You deserve someone better who can give u the attention that u crave and who's probably mature enough to want to think of the future, and has a more respectable future as well.
there's lots more i could say....but i'm just so pissed thinking of the whole
RIDICULOUSNESS of the entire business....along with the fact that the FUCKING BUNCH OF ANGMOHS at the next table are making a WHOLE FUCKING LOT Of NOISE!
FUCKING LOSERS !
yeah....
last ridiculous comment " I think he needs to lose me before he realise his problems"
Honey, i don't think he even cares if he loses u. The way i see it, you're the last obstacle between freedom and a more buxom mate. He's a selfish mutt who's more interested with his conveniece than he is with you. And if you're gonna pine after someone like that, that makes u as equal a sorry loser as he is.... IT'S SO FUCKING STUPID! STUPID STUPID STUPID!!!!!!
aah.......
that's better....never keep things inside...it's bad for u....
Well...so there u have it....
I HATE talking about relationship problems because somehow they are always so STUPID BAKA, YU CHUN, DUMB, RIDICULOUS AND BORING!!!!!
Somehow it's like when pple get into a relationship, they throw away a hemisphere of cortical matter and share one hemishiphere between the both.
And it doesn't end there, the longer they stay together their brains undergo further deterioration. It's should be given the medical term " Alzheimer's de amore " Just go do an R&J u STUPID STUPID ANG MOHS and STUPID STUPID LOVERS!